“If we don’t harness the stories we know and have, others will come in and wallpaper their own into our culture.”
– Bobette Buster
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the stories of The Graduate Wife. We’ve been able to share some amazing stories with our readers: stories of hope, hardship, moving, family, love, and sacrifice; inspiring and encouraging stories that keep our readers continuing their own journeys.
As I think back on my own graduate journey, with its twists and turns, I’m thankful I had people around encouraging me to write my story down. I will admit I hate journaling, and often view it as a chore rather than a reflective exercise. However, I can say that when I have taken the time to journal, it’s been great. It’s meant much more to me in the long run, after walking through periods of celebration and difficulty, to be able to look back at the map of my life and say with the mark of an x, “I was there.”
That’s why this blog has been so helpful for me. Even though it was started at the end of my time as a current graduate wife, I have been so encouraged to hear the courageous stories of those who walked ahead of me, and those who walk behind me. The many joys, shared experiences, and adventures of the graduate life have been documented for us to read and learn from. How lucky are we?
If you don’t like to journal, I totally understand. I could probably out pace you in excuses given for not sitting down to write. But in answer to that, I say this: The only person living your story is you. If you don’t take the time to share it, it will be lost. Use your story to encourage and inspire others.
…And, when you’ve started writing, be willing to share it with us. I know our lives will be better because of it.
4 thoughts on “Monday’s Food for Thought: Your Story”
I absolutely have loved your blog. I found it shortly after moving into the realm of graduate wife. So encouraging, especially when I’m at my wits end and feel nearly single from the absence of my hubby.
I know, Emily! Isn’t it great that we’re not alone? We love hearing everyone’s stories!
I feel just like Emily feels. This blog was shared with me by someone who has been in the role of graduate wife longer than I have, but it’s definitely comforting to know that there is someone else out there with a similar experience.. Thank you! :)
You are welcome, Tammy!